1. Being A Good Listener
If you’re looking to attract others, it’s really your ability to listen that makes you particularly appealing and alluring. When you’re fully listening to another person, you’re showing him or her that what he or she’s expressing is meaningful, significant, and important to you.
By deeply engaging in what he or she’s communicating to you, you’re also building trust, rapport, and a deeper and closer connection between you both. In fact, if your desire is to boost and heighten your attraction levels, practising a skill known as active listening is an important step in the process.
Active listening is when you fully commit to understanding what someone is expressing to you, and you listen with intent, purpose, and without any distractions or interruptions. And since so many people today are totally preoccupied with their phones, their jobs, as well as their personal and outside commitments, having the ability to listen while being completely present at the moment is a highly attractive behaviour.
2. Being Kind
When it comes to engaging in behaviours that can attract others the most, one of the most crucial is acting in a kind, giving, and considerate way. In fact, not only does being kindhearted, caring, and genuinely concerned about the well-being of others immediately draw people toward you, but research has shown that men and women actively prefer to be around others who engage in altruistic behaviours and find them more appealing and desirable.
This may not be too surprising, as you probably know from your own experience that you’d rather spend time with someone who’s thoughtful and generous as opposed to someone who’s cruel and mean-spirited.
They say that laughter is the best medicine, but it’s also one of the best ways to attract others and draw people toward you. Not only does laughter have innumerable advantages for both your physical and emotional health, but it’s also advantageous for others to be around someone who’s fun and full of laughter.
Specifically, when a person laughs, he or she’s helping to improve his or her circulation, oxygen intake, and overall mood while simultaneously lowering the stress levels in his or her body as well as his or her perception of pain. With this in mind, it’s no wonder that people are instantly drawn to those who like to laugh and can make them laugh. Laughter has the power to provide them with an instant feel-good sensation throughout their entire body.
Laughter also helps to create an instant bond and understanding between you and those around you, and by laughing together, you’re laying the groundwork for a strong attraction, connection, and relationship.
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